Honestly, I think almost everyone starts off thinking a tank is just a “set it and forget it” deal. There’s something about fish that makes people assume they’re low effort. Like, you buy a pretty tank, toss in some flakes every day, and that’s that. But the reality check hits hard the moment you see that neon green water or catch a whiff of eau de swamp from across the room. The worst one I’ve seen was a buddy who left his tank until there was literally a layer of scum on top. The fish seemed immortal—probably mutated by the end!
It’s wild how many people go into it clueless (me included—my first goldfish definitely lived in a bowl with zero water changes for months and I wonder how it survived). The guilt hits once you realize fish actually need, you know, CLEAN water and basic care.
It’s kinda like getting a pet rock with fins and then… oops, it actually has needs. But hey, we all learn. The shame is, some people never get past the “just feed them” mindset. If you’re starting out, just know: regular water changes and a little research go a long way. Tank neglect is way too common, but thankfully most of us figure it out—hopefully before we create a mutant goldfish.